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Our Anniversary

Nancy and I were married June 20, 1987. It’s hard to believe 23-years has gone by. The time has rapidly flown by.

You have been my rock and helped me find balance in my life when it was lacking. Thank you so much for everything you do. I love you so much and look forward to many more years together.

I think back to our first date at Pizza Hut and the Sunday morning over that wonderful breakfast we shared by the river when I proposed. Your answer of “Yes” made me the happiest person on Earth. That sounds cliche I know but I’m not sure if I could or would want to live without you.

We raised two wonderful children and have had our ups and downs, our trials and tribulations and together we have successfully navigated these waters.

I know as we continue to grow older we will continue to use the love we have for each other to overcome any future hurdles may come upon us. I look forward to those days as much as I look forward to the happy, trouble-free days…as long as you are by my side.

Thank you Nancy for the wonderful times we have shared. I love you very much and look forward to many more years together.

With all my love.

Chris

Christmas

Despite the fact we have allowed this wonderful holiday to be changed with respect to its meaning, it remains one of my favorite holidays. When my children were younger I looked forward to Christmas morning when they would awake, long before anyone else in anticipation of the arrival during the night of Santa Clause. Nancy and I would be woken from our slumber by two small children jumping on the bed. As I rubbed sleep from my eyes, and my ears not yet working, my decaffeinated body heard something about “presents being left under the tree by Santa Clause.” I miss those days as they brought and extra special meaning to Christmas. Cherish those days.

Helen Keller said, “The only blind person at Christmastime is he who has not Christmas in his heart.” Keep Christmas and the spirit of the holiday in your heart at all times. If more of us accomplished this  small feat, we would not have many of the problems in the world which we have.

Merry Christmas

Despite the fact I did not wish to rise, I knew the smiles on the faces of my children were enough to jump start my morning. Knowing it would not be enough, Nancy instinctively knew the importance of starting a pot of coffee before the kids began ripping into brightly colored wrapping paper.

My mom definitely has some of the best decorations for this wonderful holiday. They all seem to be tied in some way to some type of food product. Candy is a food group isn’t it?

My mother is also a huge fan of snowmen.

A very good wine.


Merry Christmas to everyone. I hope you enjoy this holiday season with friends and family. May your day be filled with laughter, smiles and good tidings.

Christopher

The season has ended but the memories will live on forever. Lumberjack Pride!

It’s done. It’s over. The 2009 high school football season has come to an end. A very successful end.

My son’s high school football career has also ended. The team decided they did not want the season to end prematurely so they fought hard each game and walked away with index fingers pointed to the sky in a victory salute. The raised fingers also denoted “One more game. One more step toward the championship game.”

On an unseasonably warm Sunday in Syracuse two weeks ago the Lumberjacks held their fingers high, pointed at the sky this time saying, “We did it. We are the champions.” Wednesday night was the night for the team to gather once more and again raise their fingers high in a victory salute. A salute to themselves, to their coaches and the parents and citizens of North Tonawanda who supported the team throughout the year.

Next year another team will take the field. This team a new team as every team is. This team will be comprised of players returning from the victorious 2009 season and those players moving up from the JV team. This team will continue to work together in the off-season in an attempt to win glory for the school and the city once more. When the Lumberjacks take the field next year their spirits will be buoyed by the previous year’s victory and by the same people who have supported the team year after year. The Lumberjack pride, spirit and poise demonstrated by those players who have moved on will remain with the team for it is this energy that will help fire the engine that is Lumberkack Pride.

Go Jacks! Congratulations boys on a great season! This beautiful cake was donated by Muscoreil’s Fine Desserts. If anyone has ever had desserts from Muscoreil’s then you understand how good this cake tasted. If you have not tasted their fine products, all I can say is you have no idea what you are missing!State Championship cakeAn emotional Mr. Dick Grapes was the recipient of a photograph of the 2009 Lumberjacks. The photo was signed by every member of the team. Mr. Grapes means so much to Lumberjack history. He recently retired after calling games for NT for 51-years. His voice and thoughtful annunciation will always be remembered.Mr. Dick Grapes & Coach JantziThankfully Nancy videotaped the banquest so I could be free to photograph the event. I love this little video camera!The winners of the 2009 academic awards. Kujo has been a member of the National Honor Society for three years and has been a recipient of this award for the same length of time. North Tonawanda should be proud of the school’s academic standing in New York State. The school ranked eigth in academic standing this year.Quarterback Michael Tuzzo and Stephen “Kujo” Kijowski were the recipients of the two academic awards given out this night. Michael won the North Tonawanda Hall of Fame Scholarship and Kujo won the Louis Anastasi Scholarship. Congratulations to both of you! Mom and I asked Stephen if we could read the several pages he wrote to nominate himself. In true Kujo fashion he said, “I’ll let you read it if I win.” I didn’t tell him until later I had found the document on my computer and with tears in my eyes read it. The grammar was not perfect nor was the spelling but the message he conveyed about the life lessons he has learned and more importantly applied as a member of the North Tonawanda Lumberjacks was clearly stated. I am so proud of Stephen and his accomplishments it makes me feel as though Nancy and I have successfully done our job as parents well.Mike Tuzzo, Coach Jantzi & KujoCoach Dave Celeste, Casey Shreve, Kujo and Coach Tomm. Coach Celeste found out over the summer he had testicular cancer. Once he shared this with the team the players decided to honor Coach Celeste at each and every game. The players wrapped their wrists in athletic tape and wrote the initials “DC” on the tape. Two months ago a fundraiser was held to raise money to help offset the costs of Dave’s treatment and in true Lumberjack fashion over $20K was raised. I was told Dave just completed his last chemotherapy treatment and judging by the smile on his face he’s doing well. Dave, you are in our thoughts and prayers and an inspiration to these boys. Thank you for your courage, tenacity and perserverance.Coach Celeste, Casey Shreve, Kujo & Coach TommWe could not leave the festivities Wednesday night without a photo of Kujoand Head Coach Eric Jantzi. Coach Jantzi is a true inspiration and a true leader to these boys. Without his support and leadership and the awesome coaching staff he has, this group of boys, this team could not have accomplished what they did this year. Thank you Coach Jantzi for all you have done for our boys.Kujo & Coach JantziThis is my favorite photo of the night. I love Mr. Grapes’ voice, his leadership, humility and soft-spoken approach to life. We approached Mr. Grapes and asked for a photo. He smiled, rose from the chair in which he was sitting, placed his arm around Stephen and said, “Absolutely.” After we took the photo he made comments to Nancy, Stephen and myself that brought tears to my eyes. I of course know of myson’s accomplishments and probably his most important characteristic, humility; but when Mr. Grapes said through the tears in his eyes how special this team and Stephen were to him I thought I was going to lose it. The overwhelming feeling that someone else had recognized my son for his unbelieveable characteristics and talents was enormous. Mr. Grapes looked at Stephen and said, “Whatever you do don’t you ever lose sight of who you are as an individual. Keep your head on straight and look everyone directly in the eye and you’ll be just fine.” Thank you Mr. Grapes! You have no idea how much that meant to Nancy and myself.

I think it’s also important to recognize and remember Mrs. Grapes who passed away on October 28, 2009. On the night of Mrs. Grapes wake, several members of the Lumberjacks football team arrived at our house wearing dress slacks, shirts and ties. A few minutes later Stephen descended from his room wearing similar clothing. When I asked the boys why they were dressed in such a manner I was told they were ”going to the funeral home to pay their respects to Mrs. Grapes and support Mr. Grapes.” This is the epitomy of the Lumberjack football team. There is nothing else to say. I recall a cheer from my daughter who was a cheerleader for the Lumberjacks. It goes something like this A-W-E-S-O-M-E! That’s what the Lumberjacks are A-W-E-S-O-M-E!

As always, please leave a comment in the comment section of the blog. Thanks so much for reading.

Chris

Kujo & Mr. Dick Grapes

Football is like life.

My son and I ate dinner together last night. This in and of itself is a rare occasion for most people let alone ourselves. Too often we do not take the time to do what is important; we do what is easy.

As we ate, we spoke of the team’s success throughout the year culminating with a win at the Carrier Dome. We spoke of the individual and the team awards and the importance of characteristics such as character and integrity. I discussed with him the importance of continuing to demonstrate those very important characteristics he will continue to find success on and off the football field. Of course following this course can often be difficult. The winds blow hard from both the port and starboard sides and it is these times we find ourselves veering off course. We spoke of our moral compass and the importance of following it so we can regain our footing on our path.

We also spoke of the leadership exuded by so many of his teammates and the coaching staff for it was this leadership which guided this team to the State Championship. Coach Jantzi said it best when during a recent post-game interview he suggested the team “never bickered, never backed down from adversity and worked hard during the season as well as during the off-season.”

There is an oak tree in front of my house. On calm summer days I liked spending some time sitting on my front porch contemplating simple things. Eventually my gaze would wander to this tree; it’s magnificent trunk reaching into the sky; it’s branches reaching out and up as if to say, “I am strong.” When Fall arrives and the tree stands bare of it’s leafy coat, it’s strength becomes increasingly apparent. It’s branches, like bony fingers still reach to the sky as if to say, “I am not dead. I am still here and I will be back with a vengeance in the Spring.” For this is our life. Our lives often follow an irregular patter of successes and failures. It is important to return to our moral compass to find the combination of things which will help us return to a successful direction.

This team will move on to complete the remainder of the school year. Some will return for another season of football while others will move on to play at a higher level. Those players returning to NTHS will seek to continue what was begun this season. This level of successs is possible if you keep your attitude in check and continue to work hard. Stephen and the others look forward to the receipt of their championship rings. Those rings should be worn proudly but not flaunted. Remember, your humility for it is what kept you grounded throughout the season and will help you maintain a sense of being grounded in the future.

As I wrote this I found tears in my eyes, again. This is pretty common for me as I used to say “I was cursed with having feelings.” As I grow older, with me grows my appreciation for what people can accomplish, not the superficial success but the deep down “I knew I could do it if I pushed myself just a alittle bit harder” success. Like anyone else I find myself whining from time to time but work quickly to snap myself back into reality as the time and energy wasted whining does me no good. The tears I shed are not tears of sadness but tears of joy. They remind me of the need to be humble and to maintain a sense of humility in all of the things I do for it is this sense which helps to keep me grounded.

KujoKujo was the recipient of the Sportsmanship Award. Nice job Kujo!

Kujo and the Sportsmanship AwardHere’s the boys getting their individual awards.

NTHS Lumberjacks: Class AA Champions

I arose at 5:30 this morning and as I rubbed the sleep out of my eyes my right hand reached for the blinds. My fingers parted the blinds as I searched for a sliver of sunlight. Nothing. It’s still too early. I consulted the weather report which predicted “beautiful weather’ for the entire day.

I exited the housewith the last of the items to get packed into the car for the drive to “the Dome.”. As I looked East my eyes widened as I saw the sunrise. Beautiful is not a word which can adequately describe what I saw. I was happier yet when I recalled the drive to Syracuse is East and that beautiful sunrise would be with us throughout the drive. A good omen I am sure. I brushed tears away as I thought of our boys, already in Syracuse knowing today was going to be a good day. The happiness I felt for the boys was immeasurable.

I secretly thought of our coming drive and the happiness I would feel watching our son and his team play for surely what is the greatest glory in high school football; a state championship.

As we got on the road, coffee in hand and our caravan of family and friends in tow we made our way through the suburbs of Buffalo searching for the entrance to the NYS Thruway. As we entered the thruway and traveled East, I found myself daydreaming and looking back at the years successes for this team. I smiled widely and proudly.

As I was not bestowed the luxury of a sideline pass the photos I have chosen to share here are not action shots per se, but the action in the stands provided by the ever present and supportive North Tonawanda Fans. These are the shots that demonstrated the “fun and excitement” of the day.

I hope you enjoy reading this and viewing the photos as I enjoyed making them and reliving the wonderful events of Sunday afternoon. Please leave any comments at the end of this post.

Thanks for reading,

Chris

NYS Class AA Championship GameThe team gathered at center field one last time before the opening kickoff.NYS Class AA Championship GameKujo, Shreve and Tuzzo met the opposing team captains at centerfield for the coin toss. North Tonawanda won the toss and elected to kickoff.NYS Class AA Championship GameThe Lumberjacks gathered on the sideline before the opening kickoff. The excitement was about to begin!NYS Class AA Championship GameI think the sign says it all. The Lumberjacks came, dominated and were victorious!NYS Class AA Championship GameThe chant of “NT”, “NT” could be heard throughout the Carrier Dome. North Tonawanda fans traveled to the tune of approximately five thousand to watch “their” team vie for the chance to be identified as “Class AA State Champions.”NYS Class AA Championship GameThis shot is just, well…interesting.NYS Class AA Championship GameA unique configuration of flags hung at center field.NYS Class AA Championship GameKujo runs back toward his team from a brief meeting with the opposing team’s captain before the opening of the second half.NYS Class AA Championship GameThe Jacks did just that!NYS Class AA Championship GameIt is “How we roll!”NYS Class AA Championship GameThe final score said it all…NYS Class AA Championship GameThe NYS Class AA Champions! Congratulations boys! You deserved it. All of the hard work on and off the field has paid off. For those players returning next year, rmember the feeling and the hard work and bring it back again. Lumberjack Pride!NYS Class AA Championship GameThe game was a clean one. Few penalties and clean play. Great sportsmanship! Greater game!NYS Class AA Championship GameCongratulations again boys!NYS Class AA Championship GameNancy had to clean off the rear window of the car and repaint it for the ride home. I was reminded several times to not use the rear window wiper if it began to rain.NYS Class AA Championship GameThere it is. There is no clearer message. Thanks to all of my readers who have endured the love I have for the boys who play on this team, their hard work and their 100% effort. I am most proud of you Stephen. The award your received for sportsmanship means more to me as a parent than any award. It means I have taught you well. Congratulations!NYS Class AA Championship Game